His medal has the same sections as the internet version but in a different order. Maybe it depended on who made the medal. Internet version. After their elopement was annuled, each one married somebody else. Joshua Lovett (1833-1917) 1860 census - age 27, farmer - Russell Township - Macon - MO       His is the second family listed, wife Lucinda 26 & 4 children. What were the abbreviations for Joshua      and his brother John? Jno or Jnr? (James would be Jms, William would be Wm, etc.) 1870 census - age 37, farmer - Russell Township - Macon - MO       - wife Lucinda 36, 3 more children 1880 census -age 47, farmer - White Township - Macon - MO       - wife Lucinda 46, 3 more children 1887 Lucinda died. Meanwhile Martha R. Sharp  (1836-1896) is married with children in TN. 1860 - Ledford Parrot 29, Martha R. 24, Henry 1 1870 - Ledford Parrot 39, Martha R. 34, Henry 11, George 10, Rubin 8 1880 - the internet census index for that year says she and her husband Ledford Parrott were living with     son Henry but the wrong census page comes up. *1890 census.       A fire destroyed most of the records for this year. We might have found Joshua and Martha together. She died before 1897.     Photos courtesy of Henry Larson - Research and census pages courtesy of Dwyn Larson   dwyn@ancestorpages.com